No way! Too germy, plus I don't trust 'em.
Yes, she needs to do whatever she can to provide for her kids.
Yes, I would donate them to another family.
"Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people. Do what you feel in your heart to be right- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't. You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.' Freedom makes a huge requirement of every human being. With freedom comes responsibility. For the person who is unwilling to grow up, the person who does not want to carry is own weight, this is a frightening prospect." ~ Elenore Roosevelt